4 Facts You MUST Understand if you are Ever Going to
Effectively Deal with the Terrible Twos or Children Behavior Problems
1. Behavior is driven by Emotion, NOT Logic. This is
fundamental to everything, including understanding toddler behavior. Behavior,
for any person of any age, is determined by their emotional state. People ACT
from their emotions, and they later JUSTIFY their actions with logic. But small
kids don’t have the ability to use logic, so they act purely from emotion. Keep
this in mind when dealing with behavior in toddlers.
2. We tend to overuse the word “No” when we talk to our
kids. This causes problems with toddler behavior. You remember the story of the
boy who cried wolf, right? The little shepherd boy was bored while watching the
sheep so he decided to cry wolf and make the villagers come running. Before
long, they stopped responding to his false cries. When a parent cries “No” at
every little thing, kids stop listening. The parent’s cries fade into the
background. Behaviour problems in children can stem from this caveat. I’ll
teach you multiple ways to get what you want without screaming “NO” at your
child – and it simply works better!
3. If you want to have any chance at all of influencing
your toddler’s behavior, you MUST have rapport first. Rapport simply means
having an emotional connection to another person. I’ll show you how you can
learn LOTS of ways to create this crucial emotional bridge before you deal with
children behaviour problems.
4. Language is a powerful tool and there are a bunch of
tactics you need to learn to create the outcomes you want. Here’s a specific
tip: Use positive language instead of negative language. This is explained in
detail either in the free audio lesson above, and in the video presentation.
Watch This FREE presentation with Toddler Parenting Tips
for the Terrible Twos and Beyond…
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